As a person we need to stop grading our self or others. Well, the grading systems have start since schooling days but let us leave it to the exam paper marking only, not human. It’s not humane to evaluate another human when it comes to life perspective, that’s God territory. Male or female, we are all Homo sapiens. On top of that, we are His entire servant. No need to prove anything, since no one has ever successfully brought back the death, not even zombie, so let’s call it a day.
Why I am blabbering here? The Obedient Wife Club’s statement of course!
No individuals are ever the same with one another. To put all women as one group and flocking it together is not the right way to do it. To say that one wife is obedient than another because they serve their husband sexually better, that’s also inappropriate. Well, that’s my opinion. Can they thing out of the box, as example, what if the husband is paralyzed from neck to toe? Then they wife is not first-class wife because no sex service is needed there. Besides, not all man is only looking for sex. It is not as easy as that to surmise the other person thought.
There are men who choose not to marry yet because there is thinking about the responsibility to bring up the family. Even some of them thought that polygamy is not are privileges but a HUGE responsibility. No, this do not come from Aidil of Nur Kasih fame, it was a comment from a cousin. There goes the myth that all man is looking for more than one wife/ partner. Probably some are, but the main point here is NOT all.
It was a bizarre proclamation to put up and moreover, giving such statement is only degrading woman as well as man; hope that they can make some amend before the reputation of the club goes beyond reparable.
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Or what if your husband is blind or handicapped ? Will he expects you to be a whore ? This whore thing is because this Doctor Rogayah and this Taufik lady are not the first wives. If they are the first wives, do you think they will use words like whore, first class prostitude ? They are talking about competing with other wives for the man's attention. Attention. Not love. These women are screwed enough to be someone's next wives. UMNO is more screwed to be associated with them. Hey we have leaders who are sex maniacs.
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