Get over it!

The most advise which will be given to the person who are having hard time being rejected is "Get over it!". Then, the reply will come back as "How?".

Sometimes when we were in a relationship, we tend to be too focus into our own personal life. The world is ours. Everything that we do is between the two of us and rarely we invite others to be part of it.

As for me the hardest part to take for a breakup if the person said that I cling to him so much. That I do not have other friend and he was the only one and he felt suffocated. Please, dear. "Isn't that is part of the relationship?".

So, back to our discussion, how to get over it? I don't have the answer. I will just let the pain take over me till I can't feel it anymore. I think the best thing to get over something is to fell in love once again. But, not necessary with people. Probably with life once again. Why choose to love human when you know that human can hurt you so much .

I know the only one person who dare not to hurt me. She will rather cry in silence than seeing me cry out loud. I love you so much, mother!


Cheers to life once again!

Video on making miso soup

I found a website with video of how to make miso soup. Please visit the web http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-make-miso-soup if anybody is interested in making and having it....or just for the sake of knowledge. (^-^)

Why pain are painful?

To describe pain is difficult. As for me, the most painful thing is when my heart is being hurt. Usually if it involve death in the family such as when my father passed away two years back, my heart just went numb. I didn't feel anything at all. As early as 11 years old when my dearest great grandfather left forever, I cried out loud but with no tears. That was the first time I felt the numbness of the heart. Do you know the feeling when we can't mourned on the death of the love ones? Wish that you will never experience it.

However, if the pain is cause by someone who I cared a lot, the heart just bleeding. And the blood is like flowing out forever. I can forgive but how to forget, dear.

Cheers to broken heart! (^-^)

Life move on

Dealing with heart broke is the most difficult situation for me. How do you handle the hopeless life? Nothing to be done. I just keep mourning and sometimes too much of it. Till one day when I feel that enough is enough and to helll with love. Then I start walking again and look at life and stop to smell the roses and smile at others. But it will take some time to heal the broken heart.

Cheers to life!

Love & pain

When I love, I love wholeheartedly. When heart broken, the pain is as much as the love which was given. I don't want to love anymore. The pain is too much and unbearable. God, please take away this pain. And take away the love so I don't have to go through this pain again.

Procrastination is the thief of life

Life is defined by time. Simple example is age, a remark to show how long something or someone have live in this world.

Thus, if we procrastinate, the only thing we steal is time. And the only time that we have is our life. We will never able to get hold of the time that have past.

Stop procrastinate and we will get the full amount of life which we deserved. I am shouting out loud not for others only but especially for myself. Cheers!

Celebrate the celebration

This year once again I will celebrate one of the function alone, without family just friends. I do not want to let the celebration pass by without making any mark of it. This is because I believe that if I be happy to celebrate it, then my family will also be happy. I want my mother to know that I am happy here, so she can be happy for me.

It looks like most of people think there is nothing to celebrate without love ones beside. I guess that sometimes the celebration is not just about oneself. Maybe you should celebrate and be happy just to thank the Greater one who have given us chances to live this life. Sure we are not happy alone but just celebrate to show our gratitute to Him.

Celebrate the celebration!