Never hold things too tight!

I have words of wisdom that I wanted to share with whoever reading this article. Never hold things too tight. It’s either you will choked it out of its life or you’ll break it but you’ll never own it.

Apply this in your (and yours truly) daily life, and please don’t forget this. For once, believe me.

The ‘things’ could be your most precious antique glasses or anyone in relationship with you. If it is something that you treasure very much, keep if safe in any locker but do not take it out to admire it. Or the best thing is to use it as if it never has any high value, like your best set of tea cups. By doing this, you’re actually made it useful to the most. If it broken, it has served it purposes as a tea set and you are having the experience of it in your lifetime.

By the way, you may also follow my Irdina’s way of treating her precious things. I bought her a Barbie doll. I assume she love it very much. And as she is afraid that her younger sister, Auni is going to tear the doll apart she, so put it safe in her cupboard. Not only Auni couldn't play with it, but Irdina also has to be contended by only taking a peep at the doll once awhile. Anyhow, that’s the idea of three years old child. You may follow her if you wish.:)

For someone in a relationship, then please consider this again. Hold true to the words, you will kill the person if you hold them too tight. There should be element of trust, rationale and considerate when we’re in a relationship. Even as a best of friend or with our own child. Taking thing for granted can be taken as one way of holding a person tightly.

You’re my friend. You’re supposed to do this and this…bla…bla…

Probably we will not kill them but we may end up having fewer friends or someone who will think that you’re not cool anymore. If the relationship is love, then you might find yourself left alone in the wedding altar. Reality is no one like to be under surveillance camera 24 hours even if it is Akademi Fantasia show. Let give way for a breath.